Put her talents and strengths to good use
Is your long-distance bridesmaid an artist, graphic designer, seamstress or in possession of any other awesome talents? Ask her to contribute to wedding preparations from a distance by designing your stationery, helping out in the making of your DIY souvenirs or helping you source incredible fabric for your bridal party gowns.
Use modern-day technology to your advantage
Meeting the rest of your bridal party for a lunch date to discuss the latest wedding preparations? Give your long-distance bridesmaid a call over Skype, Whatsapp, send her a group Snapchat or give her a good old-fashioned phone call on speaker to help her feel involved and also get her hyped up along with the rest of you about the upcoming wedding.
Brief the rest of the bridal party
The members of your bridal party will likely be planning your hen’s night, and it’s a perfect opportunity for them to work together with your long-distance bridesmaid who can contribute ideas, help with shopping around for accessories and also with reaching out to and coordinating invitees online. It’s also an opportune chance for the whole bridal party to gel and work together for one common goal: an incredible night for you to remember.
Involve her in preparations once she arrives
Although she might touch down only days before your wedding, there’s no doubt your long-distance bridesmaid will want to be involved in any preparations that you have left. Of course, don’t overload her with a bunch of tasks in the last days which are impossible for her to handle alone – involve her along with the rest of the bridal party, and advise her in advance so that she can plan her schedule (she might have hair and beauty appointments booked to look her best!) around her bridesmaid duties.
Get her opinion on dress styles
Having a close friend that lives overseas can actually work to your advantage. Consider sourcing outfits and accessories for your bridesmaids from the area where your long-distance bridesmaid lives – it will guarantee a look for your bridal party that hasn’t been seen or done often before, and open up a world of choice that might not be available locally. However, be respectful of her time constraints and location – sending her to the other side of the city to buy dresses teeters on bridezilla territory.
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